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Stewardship Witness
Talk
The following is a transcript of a talk that Parishioner
Norman Shaffer presented at masses on Nov 10th & 11th,
2007.
A few weeks ago Ron put out the call for a volunteer
to give a “witness talk.” When I heard this I
was immediately skeptical. Being the son of a lawyer and married
to one as well I could only think “steer clear of this.”
But when I found out it was about Stewardship, it became easy
to volunteer. For this is the road I am on, trying to figure
out my Stewardship, trying to discern its role in my life.
And what better way to put things to the test than to stand
before you and tell you why I feel giving to St. Anne is a
good thing. Why is it we should all give to St. Anne?
Before giving you reasons why Stewardship at
St. Anne is a good thing I guess I should introduce myself.
Some of you already do know who I am, maybe through my involvement
with the school, maybe through my work with the parish. But
most of you probably recognize me as the guy who sits in the
back of the church…. praying softly…..singing
out of key……occasionally wrestling with a two
year old.
I started sitting there because when I first
joined the parish I didn’t know too many people. I had
a severe case of the “I’m-from-Back-East”
syndrome. It’s also not my style to just walk right
up front from the get-go. So I sat the in the back…praying
softly and singing out of key.
Another reason why the back pew felt right was
this is where my Faith fit. For years I glad-handed my Faith.
After having gone through Our Lady of Mercy grade school,
then to Jesuit high school at Georgetown Prep my Faith had
plateaued. I pretty much had stopped growing my Faith. I mean
I received just about all the sacraments. The only ones left
once I became a young adult were Matrimony and what I still
call Extreme Unction (no offense Father Paul, but Holy Orders
were not for me and I’d like to put off the Extreme
part for as long as possible.) So I went about living life
and whenever Faith came-a-calling, my response was “I
gave in High School.” Actually, looking back, I thought
I had all the Faith I needed.
And I figured Faith would stop knocking on the
door. I thought after all the years of giving the same answer
Faith would have simply accepted it. But that’s not
the case. I’ve come to the realization, maybe a bit
later than the obviousness of it would suggest, but Faith
always needs an outlet. It needs the opportunity to be nourished
and to grow.
As of late I have been discovering different
ways to live and give my Faith. The most fulfilling has been
through my family. My wife and sons have certainly strengthened
my Faith. They’ve challenged it, not in the sense of
a duel, but by the fact that they keep giving me more than
I could ever give them. So I up my level to try and match
the Faith they give me. Other ways I live my Faith are to
give my time in the care of my mother-in-law. I work with
the Matt Talbot Center, a place that helps the homeless re-enter
society, and I have supported friends who have traveled the
world to provide relief and shelter to those less fortunate.
And last, but certainly not least, I give to
St. Anne. For next to my family, it is here where my Faith
gets a jolt. It is here where the next strongest Faith challenge
comes-a-calling. It is here where the question of how strong
is my Faith in God…. in Jesus……in the Holy
Spirit comes at me most directly.
But it’s also here at St. Anne where I
can explore ways to get more Faith so I can turn around and
give it back. It is here where I have the support of community
to test my Faith without fear of failure. For if I do fall
short I know there will be others here to pick me up. It is
here where my family can come together with yours and we can
celebrate the triumphs and tragedies of life. And it is here,
within these four walls, that we come together each week to
give witness to our Faith and thank God for our blessings.
So with this long introduction of myself, the
only thing I can confidently say is that I have given you
my reasons why giving to St. Anne is good. I leave it to each
of you to come to your own conclusions as to why giving is
a good thing. I can only hope some of my reasons are your
reasons. Regardless, I think we can all agree that giving
is good.
Of course, the next question is what to give.
If I can go back to my run-of-the-mill faith days, when I
heard the word Stewardship I took it as simply giving money.
And I won’t deny this is my main purpose in talking
to you today but Stewardship in the Catholic Church is changing.
Yes, Treasure is important but the concepts of Time and Talent
are equally important as expressions of Faith.
For what good is all the money if we do not
have the talent to put into action a vision on how best to
invest our parish resources in strengthening the Faith of
all. What good is it without people giving their time to keep
Faith alive? It really means nothing without an involved parish.
But it does start with Treasure. There’s
no disputing there are costs in running a church, that there
is a need for monetary support to have a successful operation.
Now, in the past few weeks we have heard from
the Finance and Parish Councils about our budget situation.
Craig and Carmen told us about the shortfalls and what we
need to make ends meet. Ron has certainly made clear where
we stand financially. There is no doubt we are at a crossroads
where money is concerned.
However, and I’m sure Ron is going to
cringe when I say this, and again with no offense to anyone
else, I say ignore all that talk. From my perspective what
has been talked about are the minimum daily requirements that
are needed to exist. Yes, each of them has to be pragmatic,
because as I said, there are costs in running a parish.
But the opportunity before us today is not about
what we have to do to survive but what we should do to flourish.
Here is a Faith-challenge moment and my apologies if it comes
off as walk ten-paces-turn-and-shoot, but here is a chance
to commit ourselves to flourishing; to recommitting ourselves
to our Faith…..to our family…..to our friends.
For St. Anne is the only place where all three intimately
intersect.
Let’s go beyond the minimum requirements.
Let’s make a statement that on the verge of St. Anne’s
second century, Her parishioners recommitted themselves to
Faith. The goal for next year’s is a 15% increase in
our sacrificial giving. I say go beyond that. We definitely
have the capacity to do it. Most everyone here has been blessed
with good fortune.
I once heard a good news/bad news description
of the Treasure portion of Stewardship. And I think it fits
here. The good news is this parish has all the money it will
ever need. The bad news is it’s in your pocket.
Now you have received or will shortly receive
in the mail your sacrificial card to fill out and return.
Even better, there are cards in each pew right now. Reflect
before filling it out; ponder the possibilities of what your
giving can do for our community. Whatever figure you arrive
at please consider giving more. As I said the goal is to exceed
a 15% increase.
And as I also said we have the wherewithal,
the question now is…..do we have the faith?
Thank you.
> Norman Shaffer
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